HUNTSVILLE, Ala. (TENNESSEE VALLEY LIVING) - If you find yourself lost somewhere in between being single and in a committed relationship, unsure of “what you are,” you might just be in a “situationship.” It looks like a relationship and sounds like one on paper, but it lacks commitment.
It’s a tricky place to be, and trust us...we’ve been there. You like this person, but you’re not sure if they feel the same way. Or maybe, you’re afraid to initiate the next step. Either way, Relationship Expert, Dr. Christie Kederian shared her advice on navigating this and how to make it out.
Her number one tip is to define what you’re personally looking for. Are you dating to marry and are you looking for a long-term commitment? Then, maybe you should steer clear of those that are even the slightest bit unsure.
1. Express, don’t expect
She says that one way to move past a situationship is to have a conversation where you express what you’re looking for without expecting the other person. This is the infamous “What are we?” conversation. She recommends approaching it in a way where you express that you enjoy spending time with them and that you’d like to explore the next stage.
2. Find out what the other person is looking for
Sometimes you can feel unready to take this step if you do not know the other person well enough. But it’s important to take this step if you’re interested in pursuing something serious. If you have a clear path forward then it will help you mitigate any anxiety that could potentially sabotage the relationship.
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3. Know what you want
If you are not clear with yourself on what it is that you’re looking for, you cannot expect another person to meet your expectations. Be honest and seek advice from friends and family.
4. Don’t waste your time
Do not sit around, waiting for them to one day change their mind. If they say they don’t want to take the next step, believe them and move on. This will help you make room for other potential relationships.
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